A couple doesn’t remember the reason for being together.

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A couple doesn’t remember the reason for being together. They still make love, yet after seven years, they lose their sparkle. They are far from their first wild years full of desire, dreams, and lust; Normal life has taken its prize. Lots of work and «the ever same» won over the time of deep connection.

What to do?

Remember, remember, and search for the sparkle, the uniqueness in connection —, instead of sarcastic comments. Be kind. See the beautiful lines on your partner’s face. Make the little extra effort, an unusual gesture, a gift, a kiss. Enjoy watering your other, your love, and you will see it slowly coming alive again, blossoming.

Now — notice the change in your perception.

We decide every moment if our relationship develops, grows, or stagnates. Let’s not expect; only generously give, and you will know…again. After knowing comes feeling.

Champagne for the Mind #6— October 19, 2022